I've just started my second degree. A Bachelors Degree in Psychology (Organisational Psych). Part time of course. And as I embark on this fun new chapter, re-inventing my new way of life - family, life, fitness, work, I've also decided to take what I learn in uni and apply it to my workshops, strategies, clients and work.
Here's a take on Confirmation Bias. I've seen it at work in the office. I've seen this at work in my own reflections. Let's get into it a little more, from the lens of leadership.
Ever you ever noticed how some leaders only listen to those who agree with them? Or dismiss ideas that challenge their assumptions?
That’s confirmation bias at work.
Confirmation bias is our tendency to favour information that confirms what we already believe and to ignore or downplay anything that contradicts it. It’s human. It’s subconscious.
And for leaders, it can be dangerous.
What does this look like at work?
Here are a few real-world examples:
- Hiring decisions
- Innovation blind spots
- Performance reviews
Why leaders need to care:
Leaders, you have the responsibility to shape culture. We are all humans and when confirmation bias goes unchecked, we limit ourselves and also the business.
- Diversity of thought gets stifled
- Innovation slows down
- Trust within teams may erode
What could be the biggest risk in leadership when Confirmation bias is in play?
Unawareness. Most leaders don’t even know they’re doing it.
What can you do?
As I begin my Bachelors in Organisational Psychology, here’s what I’m learning: self-awareness is everything.
Here are a couple of thoughts that could help you as a leader:
- Slow down your decisions. Ask yourself: What might I be missing?
- Encourage dissent. Invite voices that disagree with you.
- Keep a bias-check partner. Someone who’ll challenge your blind spots.
You don't need to know all the answers in leadership. You need to have a vision, a plan and more importantly, you need to be open.
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Loss of Future Vision: His imagined trajectory—for himself and the company—required complete rebuilding.
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Derek's perspective shifted after watching a simple YouTube video with the message "everything ends." This basic truth helped him contextualise his experience within natural cycles rather than personal failure.
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Friends suggested Derek "throw away" his past and start fresh, but the healthier path involved integration. "There were people around me that were like, no, don't throw away, you rebuild. You stack on top."
This reframe helped Derek see VidSee as one vehicle for deeper values that predated the company and would continue beyond it. His current venture, BE (The Be Company), represents evolution rather than departure—still empowering creators but with expanded scope.
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Derek's journey reveals what founders need during transition:
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